Imperfect Control: Our Lifelong Struggles With Power and Surrender

Necessary Losses: The Loves Illusions Dependencies and Impossible Ex

Grown-Up Marriage: What We Know, Wish We Had Known, and Still Need to Know About Being Married

Suddenly Sixty and Other Shocks of Later Life

I'm Too Young To Be Seventy: And Other Delusions

Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Wait for Me: And Other Poems About the Irritations and Consolations of a Long Marriage

Forever Fifty and Other Negotiations

Girls & Sex: Navigating the New Landscape