And some women might find this flattering, being asked out over and over again by a man determined to have you. But not me. Not that the man in question isn€t sexy as sin, funny as hell and charming as they get. Because he is. Sometimes you just can€t allow yourself to be interested in someone for other reasons, other variables. This is one of those times. Saxon Tate is my best friend€s ex-boyfriend. He cheated on her. He could possibly cheat again. That's three strikes. He€s out.